Showing posts with label Loneliness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Loneliness. Show all posts

Sunday, March 20, 2016

Constructive Sorrows

Bible reading: 2 Corinthians 7:8 – 11

Step 4 - We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord. Lamentations 3:40

Principle 4 –  Openly examine and confess my faults to myself, to God, and to someone I trust. (Steps  4 and 5)

“Happy are the pure in heart.”

We all have to deal with sorrow. We may try to stuff it down and ignore it. We may try to drown it or avoid feeling it by intellectualizing. But sorrow doesn’t go away. We need to accept the sorrow that will be a part of the inventory process.

Not all sorrow is bad for us. The apostle Paul had written a letter to the church in Corinth. It made them very sad because Paul was confronting them about something that they were doing wrong. At first, he was sorry that he had hurt them. But later he said, “Now I am glad I sent it, not because it hurt you, but because the pain turned you to God. It was a good kind of sorrow you felt, the kind of sorrow God wants his people to have… For God sometimes uses sorrow in our lives to help us turn away from sin and seek eternal life. We should never regret His sending it… Just see how much good this grief from the Lord did for you! You no longer shrug your shoulders, but became earnest and sincere, and very anxious to get rid of the sin.” (2 Corinthians 7:8 – 11)

Jeremiah said, “Although God gives… Grief, yet he will show compassion too, according to the greatness of his loving kindness. For he does not enjoy afflicting men and causing sorrow.” (Lamentations 3:32 – 33)

This grief was good, for it came from honest self-evaluation, not morbid self-condemnation. We can learn to accept their sorrow as a positive part of our recovery, not just as punishment.

Honest self-examination can lead us to a sorrow that inspires our growth.

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The God Idea

When we saw others solve the problems by simple reliance upon a Spirit of the Universe, we had to stop doubting the power of God. Our ideas did not work. But the God idea did.

Like a blind man gradually being restored to sight, I slowly groped my way to the Third Step. Having realized that only a Power greater than myself could rescue me from the hopeless abyss I was in, I knew that this was a Power that I had to grasp, and that it would be my anchor in the midst of the sea of woes. Even though my faith at the time was miniscule, it was big enough to make me see that it was time for me to discard my reliance on my prideful ego and replace it with a steady strength that could only come from a Power far greater than myself.

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Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Overcoming the fear of loneliness

Overcoming the fear of loneliness requires understanding God's commitment to you. His fatherhood isn't based upon mood, sentiment or emotion; it is based on his unchanging character and reputation. Everything He is, and claims to be, stands or falls apart, depending on His faithfulness to you. "For the sake of His great name, the Lord will not reject His people, because the Lord was pleased to make you His own." 1 Samuel 12:22 NIV. Notice two things in the Scripture: concern for His good name, and the pleasure He takes in being your Father, are why He will never turn His back on you. Your problems don't mean that God is judging or disowning you. Satan would love to convince you of that. He will tell you that you failed God, or that God has failed you in order to make you feel unworthy, hopeless, disowned by God and abandoned. No, generations of believers have sung through their souls’ dark night, "great is thy faithfulness, oh God, my Father." In your circumstances and suffering, "God's loyal love couldn't have run out, His merciful love couldn't have dried up. They’re created new every morning, how great your faithfulness!" Lamentations 3:22-23 TM Suffering in adversity don't cancel His faithfulness, He's "the same yesterday, today and forever." Hebrews 13:8 NKJV He can't love you once, and not love you always. "After you suffer a short time, God, who gives all grace, will make everything right. He will make you strong and support you and keep you from falling." 1 Peter 5:10 NCV Today, declare, "nothing can ever separate me from God's love."